Trevor Hayley

Funeral and Life Memorial Celebrant

A Caring Presence for you and your family so you can Celebrate a Life

Servicing Greater Adelaide, Fleurieu, South Coast and Adelaide Hills Regions of South Australia

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“The goal of all life is death” – No Sigmund, Just No!

Apr 11, 2022

How dare this prominent neurologist, and father of psychotherapy say such a thing!!

Are we indispensable?

Mar 27, 2022

At some point in the future, who we ‘are’ now will be taken over by those remembering who we ‘were.’ At this point legacy will take over. What are you leaving in yours?

“Oh for the time I shall sleep without identity!”

Mar 13, 2022

I wonder if Emily Bronte, the author of Wuthering Heights, would have written the literary classic if she was famous. Maybe we need to easy into communities with who we are before offering what we can do.

If death is inevitable, why is it scary?

Feb 20, 2022

How can we grapple with a concept where there is no lived experience to tell us what it is? But then we learn to stop being scared of the dark.

Living fully

Jan 30, 2022

The inspiration of Mark Twain, ‘The fear of death follows the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.’

‘Learn as if you want to live forever’ – Mahatma Gandhi

Jan 9, 2022

Making the most of my days, while at the same time knowing there is always more to learn, will bring quality to those days.

Walk with love, from the time of our birth, until the end.

Nov 21, 2021

May love be our guide, from our first anterioral breath, unto our last posterioral breath.

‘The idea is to die young as late as possible’

Oct 31, 2021

May we never be in a hurry to truly grow up, but instead have a healthy relationship with our inner child. For it is here the sense of wonder and excitement resides.