Funeral and Life Memorial Celebrant
A Caring Presence for you and your family so you can Celebrate a Life
Servicing Greater Adelaide, Fleurieu, South Coast and Adelaide Hills Regions of South Australia
Celebrating a Life
Just as a river brings life so do the important people in our lives. When a person dies, is it possible to achieve a balance between the warmth and space to remember for funerals and memorials, while at the same time, truly celebrate the life that was?
The person you have loved, deserves nothing less than the best send off, as you say goodbye. I believe that by truly listening and working with you, to fully understand your wishes, this balance of warmth and celebration is possible. How can I partner with you to bring about this balance?
Celebration and care – to provide a balance between care you need as a family, and to celebrate the life of your loved one.
Essence – an invitation, together, to reflect on what was at the very heart, or essence of the person, that made them unique and special to you.
Listening – being fully present and listening inwardly to your wishes and hopes for the funeral or memorial
Eulogies – can be a stress to those delivering them. I am more than happy to step in if required and take the pressure off on the day
Build a picture – although the physical presence has gone, the person will continue in our hearts and minds in images and memories.
Remembering – space to truly capture those memories you can recall, as well as those that will emerge.
About you – your memories and reflections, and being with those you love, are at the centre of any ceremony.
Touch the heart – together, the invitation is to prepare a funeral or a memorial, that will resonate with you in a meaningful way.
Ease – you can be assured your wishes and hopes will be delivered with warmth, while at the same time celebrating the life of your loved one.
I have officiated at ceremonies including the Sporting Car Club in Hyde Park, Belair National Park, Old Willunga Courthouse, Hindmarsh Island, and even Keith in the South East. Location plays such an important role in any ceremony, so let’s discuss just the right place for yours.
Please feel free to call me on 0409 107 372 to discuss your requirements.
“Trevor conducted a Memorial Service in honour of my Mother. He visited us several days prior to the service and we were impressed by his kind and caring manner and how thorough he was in covering all aspects of the Service. On the day he conducted a very sensitive and personal ceremony – with support and understanding for family members. He understood that we wanted to celebrate Mum’s life and it was a joyous occasion.’
Please call me to discuss your requirements
Caring Conversations Café
There is beauty in the sharing of human experience. Although Caring Conversations Café is not a professional counselling space, it is a safe and respectful place where people can come and share their grief journeys with each other, and provides a small way for memories to continue and for journeys and life to be shared. Apart from grief, discussions can also be in other areas if desired. There are some flexible alternatives, which can be tailored to your needs:
- Sponsorship – for a business or organisation wanting to be aligned with a caring space by sponsoring an event in an existing commercial café, where people enjoy complimentary coffee and cake
- Facilitator – if you would like me to come and facilitate an event in any location; your own premises, a café etc.
- Government – whether Federal, State of Local, the Café would be suited in a library or community centre setting.
‘Caring Conversation Café’ is a registered business name with ASIC. If you would like to find out more, feel free to contact me on 0409 107 372. For your peace of mind, I carry insurance and hold current DCSI Clearances.
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Previously I was involved in a professional capacity assisting clients with their accounting and taxation needs for around twenty years. Although I enjoyed the client contact, and many a conversation about non-financial matters, I found a growing ‘disconnect’ with the work, until it got to the point that I had to move on.
Although I already had a Bachelor of Commerce, I retrained in a Certificate IV in Chaplaincy and Pastoral Care. The study was engaging, learning such concepts as client empowerment, being truly present with people, how incredibly unique we all are, as well as general concepts of ‘delivering’ pastoral care to clients. The course also provided extensive training into grief and loss, and it was through this learning I became aware I may have something to offer in this area. This led to me taking the step to establish my own business as a Funeral and Memorial Celebrant.
On the encouragement of some wise people, I also established ‘Caring Conversations Café’ to practically utilise my skills in grief and loss. Bringing people together in an informal setting, over a coffee; to talk about their grief journeys seems to have met a need in the community. It is a privilege to share in share stories.
My training has also taken me to other areas, including primary school chaplaincy and a weekly coffee morning where fifteen or so people come, all living on their own, to do community together. There are other projects that I am involved in from time to time.
Wherever I go around this beautiful city of Adelaide, I am taken with the amazing stories of people I meet. They are all incredible, because it is this story that defines our uniqueness. To be a positive and caring presence wherever I go is all I can ask for. Life is certainly to be celebrated.